One thing that has terrified me as a mother is Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. There are precautions that can be taken, but ultimately there is no control over this terrible occurrence. I know I am not alone in this, but I would startle and run to my infant's side if he or she had been asleep too long (in my opinion). I have hovered over them to make sure they are breathing. I have been prepared to wake them and call 9-1-1 because I felt their breathing may slightly seem erratic. (It was probably just me in my sleep deprivation from hovering and worrying). Recently I have heard a lot of debate over the correlation between SIDS and co-sleeping. Tragically in my own town, twin boys recently suffocated while co-sleeping.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2096611/Twin-babies-died-mothers-bed-victims-tragic-accident.html
Next a mother in Texas, has lost two boys in separate incidents to suffocation while co-sleeping. http://thestir.cafemom.com/baby/135775/mom_convicted_for_not_heeding
However, in many countries it is considered negligent to put babies to sleep in a room by themselves. Santrock (2009) mentions that Mayan mothers sleep with their infant until they have another child, at which time that child goes to sleep with a different family member and the newborn sleeps with its mother. In this culture it is considered bad parenting to not sleep with your infant (p. 133). Many cultures and people from countries around the world co-sleep. It has been stated that in Japan there is the lowest rate of infant mortality, lowest rate of SIDS related deaths, 70% of mothers breastfeed, and 60% co-sleep (McKenna, n.d.)
I guess I am torn on this. I believe that there are safe ways to co-sleep. There are now co-sleeping beds that attach to the parents bed for babies to stay close to mom, but far enough away to stay safe. My own children slept in a bassinet right next to my bed until they we too big to safely be in it any longer, which also is an option. It is a fine line between SIDS and suffocation when debating co-sleeping. Research is finding negative and positive correlations between breastfeeding, smoking, education, and co-sleeping now with SIDS related deaths (p. 133). Ultimately, I think there are smart ways to co-sleep with infants to reduce suffocation or SIDS, but the debate is starting to pick up steam and many people are starting to push for laws to punish parents whose children suffocate while co-sleeping. I am not sure about this and would love to hear feedback from my colleagues?
References:
McKenna J. J. (n.d.) Cosleeping around the world. The Natural Child Project. Retrieved May 8, 2012 from http://www.naturalchild.org/james_mckenna/cosleeping_world.html
Santrock, J.W. (2009) Child development (12th ed.). New York: McGraw Hill.
I really enjoyed reading your post. I think that its interesting that the infants sleep with the mother when its born but then after a new infant comes along the infant that was with the mother sleeps with another family member. I agree that SID may be a scary thought and that you can't have control of it. I don't fully understand the feelings that you had to go through because I'm not a parent but I really love kids so I know this is could be a scary thing.
ReplyDeleteSIDS unfortunately happens to many babies. I personal don't feel there is anything wrong with keeping a child next to their parents bed for the first couple of months. However, I wonder for the familiies in Mayan who sleep with their babies until they have another infant, do those children suffer from attachment issues or grow to be depedent individuals. My daughter is 11 and when she is sleeping too long, her dad and I still check on her. I guess its parental instinct.
ReplyDeleteI also blogged about SIDS...my best friend just lost her baby to SIDS last September and I feel as if I lived through it with her! There's no answers for what happened....it's so sad. I've researched all of the possible links that may be factors in SIDS, but our little Rylee, nor her mother fit into any of these categories. I don't think anyone will ever be able to totally concludes what causes these precious little babies to slip away.
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